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Baby shower photography for everyone who showed up
You will be handed a plate, hugged forty times and asked the same three questions by every person in the room. Two hours later it is over, and the only record is eleven blurry photos taken from behind somebody’s shoulder.
Based in Guelph, ON. Shooting across Southern Ontario. Every fee, including travel, insurance and any ticket costs, is discussed and agreed in writing before anything becomes binding.
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Everyone you love, in one room, before the baby arrives.
This is the last afternoon this exact group of people will be together before the baby exists. Your mother and their mother in the same kitchen. The friend who took a flight. The aunt who made the cake and will find a way to mention it. The coworker who somehow knows more about strollers than anybody in the room.
Everyone still comes after the birth. They just come one at a time, and they come to see the baby. This is the last one that is entirely about you.
The problem is that you cannot be a guest at your own shower and photograph it at the same time. You are opening things, holding up tiny socks, thanking people, being steered toward the cake. Nobody else in the room is free either, because everybody in the room is helping, hosting or eating.
That is the whole job. One quiet person with a camera who gets the table before anyone touches it, the look on your face when the door opens, your grandmother laughing at something off camera, and one good frame of every single person who gave up a Saturday for you.
In ten years the gifts will be long gone. The room will not be.
Thirty minutes to two and a half hours
Coverage runs from 30 to 150 minutes depending on the package you choose. Short covers the details and one key moment. Long covers the whole afternoon, from the empty room to the last car pulling out of the driveway.
We document it, we do not run it
Nobody gets lined up and told to smile until near the end. We work the room the way a documentary photographer would, then borrow ten organised minutes for the group portraits everybody actually wants and nobody wants to be in charge of.
The people, not just the party
Decor gets photographed because you planned it. People get photographed because you will want them. One frame from this afternoon ends up framed in the nursery, and it is almost never the balloon arch.
Where should you hold it?
A baby shower is almost always indoors, which makes the venue a lighting decision far more than a scenery decision. The question is not whether the room is pretty. It is how much daylight gets into it, how much clear wall sits behind the guest of honour, and whether thirty people can move around without standing in front of each other.
Southern Ontario gives you plenty of range inside half an hour of Guelph: somebody’s living room, a church or community hall, a restaurant back room, a greenhouse, a barn venue out on a county road. Each one has a different problem and the same solution, which is to seat the guest of honour where the light is and build the rest of the room around her.
If you are choosing between two rooms, take the one with the bigger window. It matters more than the wall colour, the square footage or how good the food is going to be.
Somebody’s living room
Her house, her mother’s house, the friend with the biggest kitchenMost showers happen in a house, and houses are built for living rather than for photographing thirty people at once. The good news is that a living room only needs two changes to work: open every curtain and blind in the room, and turn the overhead lights off in the corner where the guest of honour will sit.
Then pick her chair before anyone arrives. Facing the biggest window, with a clear stretch of wall behind her and enough room for two people to stand at her shoulder. Everything else in the afternoon organises itself around that one seat.
Daylight through the largest window, curtains fully open, overheads off nearby.
Fifteen to thirty guests, and anyone who wants the afternoon to feel like a Sunday.
A coat pile on the gift chair, a television behind her head, and clutter in the two feet directly behind anyone.
Parking on the street, which door people use, and where thirty pairs of boots go in February.
The backyard
June to early September, and only with a real plan BA backyard shower is the prettiest version of this party and the most weather dependent. It buys you space, room for children to disappear into, and open shade under a tree, which is the single most flattering light available to anybody outdoors.
The trap is a white tent in full sun at two in the afternoon. Tent canvas turns everyone underneath it slightly green or slightly blue depending on the colour, and the edge of the tent becomes a hard line across every face at the table. If there is a tent, we shoot the people at the open edge of it, not in the middle.
Open shade under a tree, or an overcast afternoon, which is better than sun every time.
Thirty to fifty guests, mixed ages, and families with small children in tow.
Tent colour casting onto faces, wind taking the banner down, wasps in late August.
The indoor rain plan, decided the day you book rather than the morning of.
A rented hall
Community centres, church halls, legions, banquet rooms across Wellington CountyHalls solve the problem everyone actually has, which is fitting forty five people, a food table, a gift table and a wheelchair through the same room. They are cheap, they are everywhere in Southern Ontario, and they come with tables, chairs and a kitchen already in them.
What they do not come with is good light. Most halls are lit by fluorescent tubes or yellow pot lights with very few windows, so we bring our own light and bounce it off the ceiling. Ask for a room with windows on one long side if there is a choice, and if there is not, tell us in advance so we arrive set up for it.
Window wall if it has one. Otherwise bounced flash, which we bring as standard.
Forty to eighty guests, big families, and anyone who does not want the party in their house.
Fluorescent tubes turning skin green, stacked chairs in the background, and echo during speeches.
Access time for setup, the end time on the rental, and who is cleaning at the end.
A restaurant back room
Downtown Guelph, Elora, Cambridge, Fergus, KitchenerA brunch shower at a restaurant is the lowest effort version of this day by a wide margin. Nobody cooks, nobody cleans, and the whole thing has a natural end time when the room turns over. It suits smaller guest lists and it suits a guest of honour who would rather sit and talk than run a room.
One long table photographs well and is very hard to photograph completely, so expect frames of halves of the table rather than all of it. Ask for the seat at the end nearest the window when you book, and ask whether the room can hold the lights at a normal level rather than dimmed for atmosphere.
A window seat at late morning. Brunch beats dinner for photographs, every time.
Twelve to twenty five guests, and showers where gifts are kept deliberately small.
Dimmed mood lighting, a hard end time, and no clear wall anywhere for a group photo.
Whether photography in the room is fine with them, and where the group shot happens.
A cafe or bakery
Small guest lists, morning bookings, one very good windowPlenty of independent cafes across Southern Ontario will close for a private morning or hand over a back section, and the light in a cafe is usually excellent because the whole front of the building is glass. For a shower of a dozen people this is quietly the best room on this list.
It also keeps the afternoon short and warm rather than long and formal, which suits a guest of honour late in a pregnancy far better than three hours on a folding chair in a hall.
Mid morning through the front glass. Sit her side on to the window, not facing it.
Eight to eighteen guests, and anyone who wants this to feel small on purpose.
Tight space behind the chairs, other customers in frame, and a very short booking window.
Minimum spend, whether the space is exclusive, and how early we can get in for the details.
A greenhouse
Garden centres and glasshouse event spaces around Guelph, Cambridge and WaterlooGlass roof, glass walls, plants in every direction. A greenhouse is the closest thing to a photography studio you can rent for a party, because the light arrives from everywhere at once and there is no hard shadow anywhere in the room.
It is also the best cold weather option on this page. In March, with the province still brown and grey outside, a greenhouse is warm, green and full of daylight, and the photographs come out looking like May.
Any overcast day. Full sun through glass gets hot and adds hard shadow through the frames.
Twenty to sixty guests, spring and autumn dates, and anyone who wants green in the photos.
Heat under glass in summer, humidity, and uneven ground underfoot in a working nursery.
Whether the space is heated, accessible, and available on a weekend in their busy season.
A barn or farm venue
Wellington County, Puslinch, Grand Valley, the roads out toward FergusRestored barns are everywhere out here and most of them will take a daytime booking far more cheaply than a Saturday evening. The big sliding door is the whole reason to be in one: open it, and you get a wall of soft directional daylight that behaves exactly like a studio softbox the size of a garage.
Everything happens near that door. Her chair, the gift opening, the group photos, the cake. Twenty feet further into the barn the light falls away fast and we are back to bounced flash, which works but does not look like this.
The open door. It is the best natural light on this entire page, and it is free.
Forty to a hundred guests, big extended families, and a party that runs long.
Cold coming through the doors before June, gravel parking, and dark corners past the doorway.
Heating, washrooms, accessibility for older guests, and the drive time from Guelph.
How to choose, without overthinking it
Take the bigger window
Between two rooms, daylight wins. It decides how every face in the room looks, and it is the one thing about a venue that cannot be fixed with decor.
Find the clear wall first
You need one stretch of uncluttered wall for group photos. Find it before you plan anything else, and do not put the food table in front of it.
Count chairs for the people who need them
Grandparents, anyone pregnant, anyone with a toddler on their hip. A shower where the oldest guests are standing for two hours is a shower they leave early.
Keep the food away from the gift chair
Put them at opposite ends. Otherwise the queue for sandwiches stands directly in the frame for the entire gift opening, which is the most photographed part of the day.
Give the coats their own room
A bedroom, a corner, a rail, anywhere but the sofa behind her. A coat pile is in more baby shower photographs than any other single object.
Check the boring things
Parking, stairs, the washroom, the door people actually use, what time you can get in to set up, and what time you have to be out.
Send us the address and we will tell you where to put her chair. Our photographers have shot in most of these room types across Southern Ontario, and thirty seconds on a map plus a photo of the room from your phone is usually enough for us to tell you which corner has the light, where the group photo should happen and what to move before anyone arrives. We are also building a full Photoshoot Locations guide for Southern Ontario, with venues, parking notes, permit details and the best hour for each spot.
A shower runs on a clock, whether or not anyone wrote one down
Nearly every shower follows the same shape. People arrive over about thirty minutes, people eat, something gets played, gifts get opened, cake happens, and then the whole room leaves inside twenty minutes of each other. The order shifts. The shape almost never does.
Knowing that shape is the entire trick. It tells us when to be near the door, when to be behind her shoulder, and when to stop shooting and quietly start moving chairs for the group photo. Write your order down and send it with the address. It takes five minutes and it is the most useful thing anyone can hand a photographer.
Coverage runs from 30 to 150 minutes. Here is what each length realistically buys you, so you can match the hours to the parts of the afternoon you care about most.
Thirty minutes
The details and one momentA focused half hour, and it works best at the very start rather than in the middle. We arrive before the guests, photograph the room and every detail while it is still perfect, then catch the first arrivals and the reaction at the door.
The alternative use is the other end of the party: arrive for cake, shoot the toast, run the group photos, and leave. Pick one or the other. Half an hour cannot do both ends of an afternoon.
The untouched room, the details, and either arrivals or cake and group photos.
The gift opening, which on its own usually runs longer than this whole booking.
Small showers, brunch showers, and anyone who mainly wants the styling documented.
Exactly which thirty minutes, down to the clock. This length has no room to drift.
Sixty minutes
Details, arrivals, and the room warming upAn hour is the shortest booking that feels like proper coverage rather than a visit. We come twenty to thirty minutes before the start time, shoot the room and details cold, then stay through the arrivals and the first stretch of mingling while everybody is still fresh and nobody has a plate in their hand yet.
If the gift opening starts early, an hour will catch the beginning of it. If it starts late, it will not, so put the gifts before the games on your run sheet if this is the length you are booking.
Details, arrivals, hugs at the door, candids, and a short set of guest portraits.
Cake and goodbyes, unless the party is running unusually tight.
Twenty to thirty guests, restaurant and cafe showers, tight afternoon schedules.
The one moment that matters most, so we build the hour around it rather than around the clock.
Ninety minutes
The one most people should bookNinety minutes covers the spine of a shower: the untouched room, the arrivals, the food, the gift opening and the group photos. It is long enough that people stop noticing the camera, which is when the honest frames start, and short enough that it lands squarely inside the part of the afternoon that anyone will want to look at again.
The usual shape is thirty minutes before the start for details and setup, then an hour of the party itself, finishing right after the group photos. If gifts run long, we stay with them rather than cutting away, because the gift opening is where almost every reaction on this page happens.
Details, arrivals, candids, gift opening, guest portraits, and the full group photo set.
The very end of the day, if the party runs well past its planned finish.
Most showers of thirty to fifty guests, in a house, a hall or a backyard.
When gifts start. That single time on your run sheet shapes the whole booking.
One hundred and fifty minutes
Empty room to last carTwo and a half hours covers the whole story, and the whole story is genuinely different from a highlights reel. It starts with an empty room and a folded stack of napkins and it ends with a table full of paper, a half eaten cake and four people who stayed behind to help clean up. Those last frames are usually the warmest of the day.
It is also the only length that comfortably fits a proper set of guest portraits. With this much time we can quietly take pairs and small groups aside as the afternoon goes, rather than lining up forty people at the end while everyone is reaching for their coats.
Setup, arrivals, food, games, gifts, cake, toasts, group photos, goodbyes and the clean up.
Relaxed guest portraits taken through the afternoon instead of rushed at the end.
Large family showers, barn and hall venues, and showers doubling as a family reunion.
Who is travelling in from far away, so we make sure they are properly photographed early.
The six parts of the afternoon, and what happens in each
The room, before anybody touches it
Twenty to thirty minutes before the start. Table, cake, banner, favours, the sign somebody hand lettered at eleven last night. Once thirty people arrive, none of this exists in a photographable state again.
Arrivals
The busiest thirty minutes of the day and the most emotional. Everyone hugs her, everyone touches the bump, and the friend who flew in gets a reaction nobody else gets. We stay near the door for this whole stretch.
Food and mingling
The quiet middle. People sit, people talk, plates get balanced on knees. This is where the honest candids come from, and where we take pairs aside for the portraits that would otherwise never happen.
Games, if you are having them
Some rooms love them and some rooms endure them. Either way they photograph well, because a game is the one part of a shower where everyone is looking in the same direction and nobody is looking at the camera.
Gifts
The heart of it. Reactions on her face, the card nobody can read out loud, the knitted thing an aunt has been working on since February. Sit her with the light on her face and a wall behind her and this part photographs itself.
Cake, toasts and goodbyes
Cake first, group photos immediately after, goodbyes last. Do the groups before anyone reaches for a coat, because the room empties faster than anybody expects and you cannot call people back.
Six lines is a complete run sheet. Start time, when food goes out, when games start, when gifts start, when cake happens, and when you need to be out of the room. Add the address, the door people should use, where to park, and the name and number of whoever is actually running the day if that is not you. Anything else you send is a bonus.
Four seasons, four different afternoons
A shower is an indoor party in a province with an aggressively outdoor climate, so the season decides three things: how much daylight is in the room while the party is happening, whether outside is an option at all, and what forty coats do to the house.
Showers are usually held somewhere between weeks 28 and 34, so the season is generally chosen for you by the due date rather than by preference. Here is what each one means in practice.
Spring
April to early JuneThe best indoor light of the year and hardly anybody notices. Days are long again, the sun is high enough to fill a room without coming straight through the window at face height, and the trees outside are not yet dense enough to block the light coming in.
It is also the season where a greenhouse or garden centre venue is at its best, and where fresh flowers cost the least they will all year. Backyards are still a gamble until the end of May.
Layers. Halls and greenhouses are cold in April even when the afternoon is warm.
Mud at the door, a wet coat pile, and rain plans that were never actually made.
Book the room with the most glass. Spring light rewards it more than any other season.
Six weeks ahead. Spring weekends fill early with everything else in the calendar.
Summer
Mid June to early SeptemberThe only season where outside is genuinely on the table, and the season with the hardest light. A two o’clock backyard shower in July sits under overhead sun, which puts shadow under everyone’s eyes and makes people squint through their own party.
The fix is shade rather than time. Under a tree, on the shaded side of the house, or under the open edge of a tent. Get her seat into open shade and the whole afternoon photographs beautifully. Also worth saying plainly: being heavily pregnant in thirty degree heat is miserable, so plan for a cool indoor corner she can retreat to.
Linen and cotton. Anything that breathes, in colours that do not show heat.
Overhead sun, tent colour casting onto faces, wasps in August, and melting buttercream.
Move the start time to eleven or to four. Both beat two o’clock by a mile.
Eight weeks ahead for a Saturday. Summer weekends go before anything else.
Fall
Mid September to late OctoberWarm, low, generous light that comes into a room sideways instead of down. It reaches further inside than summer sun does, so rooms that are gloomy in July are lovely in October. A late morning or early afternoon shower in the fall is close to ideal.
The one thing to know is that the usable daylight starts collapsing quickly by the end of the month. Sunset drops toward half past six by mid October, so a two o’clock start means the last hour of the party happens in lamplight.
Knits and warm neutrals. Cream, oat, olive, camel, rust, charcoal, deep green.
The light going by five, and a growing coat pile as the month gets colder.
Start at noon or one. It puts the gift opening squarely in the best light of the day.
Six to eight weeks ahead. October is the busiest month in our calendar.
Winter
November to MarchThe most common season for showers and the hardest one for light. Sunset lands near quarter past four in December, so a two o’clock start has roughly two hours of window light and then the room is running entirely on lamps. That is not a problem, it just has to be planned for rather than discovered at half past four.
An overcast snow day is quietly excellent. Snow outside the window bounces clean, soft light back into the room, and it is the best natural light a Southern Ontario living room gets all year.
The other winter fact is coats. Thirty coats, thirty pairs of boots and a wet floor by the door. Give them a bedroom, a rail, anywhere out of the room, and put a mat and a towel at the entrance before anyone knocks.
Something warm that photographs well, because the room by the door will be cold.
Daylight gone by half past four, a coat mountain in frame, and salt marks on dark floors.
Start at noon. Put gifts before three and you keep the whole thing in daylight.
Anytime. Winter has room, and a snow day is worth chasing when one lands.
The frames that people actually keep
The photographs that get printed from a shower are almost never the ones anybody planned. They are the door opening, a grandmother’s hands on the bump, two cousins welling up at the same second, a pair of shoes the size of a thumb held against somebody’s palm.
So we work the room rather than staging it, and we shoot the details first, before anyone has touched them. Scroll on, and the three rows below will move with you.
Placeholder frames. Replace with your own baby shower work before launch.
What we shoot as standard
- The whole room and every detail before a single guest walks in.
- The cake, the table, the banner, the favours, the sign somebody stayed up making.
- Arrivals at the door, hugs, and the first hand that lands on the bump.
- The gift opening from her side, so the reaction is the photograph and not the box.
- Hands, close. The knitted things, the cards, the shoes that fit in a palm.
- Every guest in at least one frame where they look like themselves.
- The wide one. A whole room, full of people, that nobody thinks to take.
Five things that change what we shoot
- Who has travelled the furthest, so they are photographed early rather than at the end.
- Whether anyone in the room is ill, elderly, or unlikely to make the next family gathering.
- Any surprise, and exactly when it lands, so we are in position rather than behind a door.
- Anybody who does not want to be photographed at all. We will quietly work around them.
- Whether the partner is coming, and at what time, because that arrival is a moment.
Plenty of people do not feel like themselves at seven or eight months, and being photographed all afternoon is a lot to ask on top of that. Say so before we start rather than after you see the gallery. Tell your photographer what you do not like in photos of yourself and we will build the whole afternoon around it: the angle, the height of the camera, which side of the chair we work from, and how much of the bump is in frame. You will not notice us doing any of it.
Ten minutes, done properly
Group photos are the part of a shower most likely to go wrong, and it is always the same failure. Somebody suggests them at the end, half the room has already put their coats on, three people are in the kitchen, and forty minutes disappear rounding everyone up while the guest of honour stands against a wall holding a smile.
Done properly it takes ten minutes and it happens right after the cake, while everyone is still in the room and still holding a plate. Three decisions in advance are all it needs.
The spot
Pick it before anyone arrives. A clear wall or a plain doorway near the biggest window, with enough room for eight people across and a bit of space behind. No television, no coat rail, no framed family photos, no doorway into a bright kitchen. We can find it for you from a phone photo of the room.
The time
Straight after the cake is cut and before a single coat comes off a hook. Everyone is in the room, everyone is standing anyway, and nobody has started saying goodbye. Ten minutes there beats forty minutes at any other point in the afternoon.
The wrangler
One person who knows everybody by name and is happy to raise their voice. Not the guest of honour, not the host, and not us, because we do not know which one is Aunt Lorraine. A good wrangler is worth more to this ten minutes than any piece of equipment we own.
The order we shoot them in
- The whole room, everybody in it. Do this one first while nobody has wandered off.
- Anyone elderly, with small children, or leaving early. Release them the moment they are done.
- Her side of the family, then their side.
- Both mothers with the guest of honour. This is the frame people order prints of.
- Grandmothers, and four generations together if you are lucky enough to have them.
- The friends. All of them at once, then the smaller groups that form on their own.
- The hosts with the guest of honour. Almost everybody forgets this one.
- Her and the partner, if the partner is there. Two minutes, somewhere quiet.
Small things that make groups work
- Tighter than feels natural. Gaps between people read as distance in the photograph.
- Chins forward and slightly down, and everyone a half step off square to the camera.
- Seat the oldest guests and the guest of honour, and stand everyone else around them.
- Drinks, plates and phones down and out of frame. Every hand, every group.
- Small children go in the front or on a lap, and they go first, before they run out of patience.
- Call the groups out loud by name rather than by relationship. It moves twice as fast.
Write the groups down and send them the week before. Full names, not relationships, because on the day we will be calling them out into a loud room. Mark anyone who has to leave early. Hand a copy to your wrangler when they arrive, keep one on your own phone, and then forget about it entirely. Getting these ten minutes right is our job, not yours.
Dress for a room, not a theme
You are going to be photographed sitting down, standing up, holding things above your head, hugging thirty people and eating cake, over a stretch of two hours, at somewhere between seven and eight months pregnant. Comfort is not a compromise here. It is the requirement.
Two ideas cover most of it. Coordinate rather than match, which means two or three shared colours across the people who will be in the group photos, in different amounts. And think about the room, because a colour that fights the walls, the banner and the cake will fight them in every single frame.
Most shower rooms are warm and neutral, so earth tones sit into them beautifully: bone, oat, camel, olive, deep green, charcoal, rust, plum, soft blue and honest denim. None of this is a rule. If you own one incredible red dress that still fits, wear the red dress.
For the guest of honour
- Something fitted through the bump rather than tented over it. Shape reads, volume hides.
- A midi or maxi length with movement in it, so standing up and sitting down stays easy.
- Sleeves you like. Your arms are in every gift opening frame, and you will notice.
- Texture beats pattern on camera: ribbed knit, linen, satin, fine wool, soft suede.
- Solid colours if you plan to hold things up. A busy print swallows a tiny cardigan.
- Shoes you can wear for two hours. Nothing new, nothing borrowed, nothing narrow.
- A cardigan or a jacket within reach. Rooms by a door in winter are colder than you think.
- Jewellery that means something. Hands and wrists get photographed constantly all afternoon.
- Lip colour that survives a coffee, and a clip in your pocket for the hour after the hugging.
For hosts and guests
- Let her be the brightest thing in the room. Everything else sits a note quieter.
- Two or three shared colours across the family group, worn in different amounts.
- Hosts should wear something with pockets and shoes they can carry plates in.
- Grandmothers and older guests: a solid colour photographs better than a small print.
- Anyone lifting a toddler for a group photo, dress for exactly that.
- Skip the coat in the group photos. Ten seconds off, then straight back on.
- A quick check in a mirror before the group photos. Collars, straps, hair, spinach.
- If a dress code has been set, follow it loosely rather than literally. Nobody wants a uniform.
What to skip
- Big logos and slogans. They date the photograph to the exact year.
- Neon and hot fluorescents. They bounce coloured light onto every face nearby.
- Tight repeating patterns, thin stripes and small checks. They shimmer on camera.
- Brand new shoes. Two hours standing is long enough for blisters to become the story.
- Anything you keep pulling at. If you adjust it in the mirror, you will adjust it all afternoon.
- Sunglasses on the head indoors, and phones tucked into a waistband. Both show.
Dress codes and colour palettes
A loose palette works and a strict dress code usually does not. Sending three colours and asking people to pick one gives you group photos that look considered without anybody feeling put upon or buying something they will never wear again.
The one worth stating plainly is white. If the styling is built around white or cream, say so, because a guest who turns up in white next to a guest of honour in white will notice it in every photograph even if nobody says a word about it on the day.
Take whichever list is useful and ignore the rest. Some of the best showers we have photographed were jeans and knitwear, a room full of people straight from a Saturday morning, and a guest of honour in the same dress she had worn twice that month because it was the only comfortable thing she owned. Wear what you feel most like yourself in. That reads in a photograph and very little else does.
This all happens indoors, so the room is the light
Outdoor sessions are booked backwards from sunset. A shower cannot be, because it is booked around when everybody can get there. So instead of choosing the hour, we work the room: we find where the daylight lands, put the guest of honour into it, and turn off whatever is fighting it.
That single move is the difference between photographs that look like a magazine and photographs that look like a phone in a dim living room. Here is what each kind of light in a room actually gives you, and what we do with it.
Window light
The best light in any room, and it is freeA large window with no direct sun coming through it is a softbox the size of a door. It wraps around a face, it puts a catchlight in everyone’s eyes, and it makes skin look like skin. Every good photograph from an indoor party is standing within about eight feet of one.
The rule is side on, not facing. Seat her with the window to one side of her rather than straight in front, and you get shape across the face instead of a flat wash. Then open every curtain and blind in the room, including the ones on windows nobody is sitting near, because they are all adding light.
Soft, warm, natural. The look almost everybody means when they say bright and airy.
Seat her side on to the glass, kill the nearest overheads, work from the window side.
The gift opening, guest portraits, details, and every group photo in the house.
Overcast
A grey day is good news indoorsA full cloud layer turns the whole sky into one enormous diffuser, and indoors that means every window in the house becomes an even, gentle light source at once. No hard shadow anywhere, no bright patch crawling across the table, nobody squinting, and colours that read deep instead of washed out.
If your shower lands on a grey day, that is a small piece of luck rather than a problem. The only adjustment is that a white sky outside a window becomes a bright hole in the frame, so we angle across windows rather than shooting toward them.
Even, calm, gentle. Skin tones behave and nobody is squinting through their own party.
Work closer to windows, shoot across them rather than into them, keep frames full.
Greenhouses, conservatories, any room with glass on more than one side.
Direct sun
The one thing in a room worth actively managingFull sun coming straight through a window puts a hard bright stripe across the floor, the table and whoever is sitting in it. Half a face lit, half a face in shadow, and a cake that is blown out on one side. It moves across the room over the course of the party, so it can arrive on the gift chair halfway through the afternoon without anybody noticing.
The fix is a sheer curtain, which turns hard sun into beautiful soft light instantly, or moving her chair three feet. Both take ten seconds. Outdoors in a backyard the same rule applies: open shade under a tree beats full sun in every single frame.
Bright and contrasty. Occasionally striking, usually just difficult.
Sheer curtain across it, or move the chair. Sometimes we use the beam on purpose for one frame.
The sun patch moving onto the gift chair midway through the afternoon.
Overhead lights
Pot lights, fluorescent tubes and the ceiling fixtureOverhead light comes straight down, which puts shadow under everybody’s eyes, nose and chin. Pot lights are the worst offender in a modern house because they are small, bright and directly above where people sit. Fluorescent tubes in a hall add a second problem, which is a green cast that has to be corrected out of every frame afterwards.
Where there is daylight, we turn the overheads near her off. Where there is no daylight left, we stop fighting the ceiling and light the room ourselves, bounced off a white ceiling or a pale wall so it still looks like the room rather than like a flash.
Flat and slightly harsh. Shadow lands exactly where nobody wants it.
Switch off the ones near her, keep the rest for atmosphere, bounce our own light in.
If the venue is a hall with tube lighting, so we arrive already set up for it.
String lights and candles
Beautiful in frame, almost useless as lightFairy lights along a mantel, candles down the middle of a table and a lit sign behind the cake all look wonderful in a photograph. What they do not do is light a face. They are decoration, and we treat them as decoration: warm points of light in the background that make a frame feel like an evening.
Where they earn their keep is late in the afternoon, once the daylight has gone. A room lit by lamps, candles and string lights, with one small bounced light from us, is genuinely lovely and looks nothing like the middle of the party. Those are usually the last frames of the day.
Warm, cosy, close. Good for the end of the afternoon rather than the middle.
Put them in the background on purpose, add one soft bounced source for faces.
Winter showers, evening showers, and the quiet stretch after most people have gone.
Our flash
Quiet, bounced, and there when the room runs out of daylightEvery one of our photographers arrives with light, because a hall with no windows or a four o’clock December living room will not give us enough on its own. It is not the flash people picture from a school dance. It points at the ceiling or a pale wall, so the room fills with soft light coming from above and behind rather than a hard blast from the camera.
Done properly nobody in the room notices it after the first two minutes, and the photographs still look like the party rather than like a studio. If a venue has restrictions on flash, or somebody present is sensitive to it, tell us when you book and we will plan the whole afternoon around available light instead.
Clean and natural. It should look like the room simply had better light in it.
Bounce off ceilings and pale walls, keep power low, and never point it at faces.
Halls, basements, barns past the doorway, and any winter shower running past four.
Seat her where the light is. Everything else in the room can move.
Daylight is the one thing about a shower you cannot add later, and in Southern Ontario the amount you get changes dramatically across the year. A two o’clock start in June has daylight for the whole party. The same start time in December has roughly two good hours before the room goes dark, because sunset lands near quarter past four. Tell us your date and start time and we will tell you exactly how much daylight you are working with.
Your quietest guest, and your most useful one
Whoever holds the camera decides what survives from this afternoon. That is true whether it is one of ours or a cousin with a good phone and a lot of enthusiasm. Either way, the highest return thing available to you is a proper conversation with them before the day, and almost nobody has it.
Tell them the feeling you want. Not the shot list, the feeling. Warm and busy and full of people, or quiet and small and close, or bright and clean and simple. Those three sentences change lens choice, how close we stand, how much of the room is in frame and how the whole set gets edited.
Then look at their work in full. Not a grid of greatest hits, one complete gallery from one event, beginning to end. A highlights reel proves somebody can get four good frames. A full gallery tells you whether the boring middle hour holds up, which is the thing you are actually buying at an event.
At Sunday Media you are working with a small team of seasoned photographers, which is deliberate. Small means the person you speak to is the person who walks through the door, they remember the conversation, and they have photographed enough Southern Ontario showers to know what a hall with tube lighting or a living room at four in December is going to need before anybody gets in a car.
The run sheet and a photo of the room
Six lines of timing, the address, which door to use, where to park, and one photo of the room taken on your phone. That is enough for us to arrive knowing where the light is, where her chair goes and where the group photos will happen.
Who matters, and anything sensitive
Who travelled furthest, who is unwell, who is not speaking to whom, who does not want to be photographed at all, and whether there is a surprise and exactly when it happens. None of it changes what we charge and all of it changes what we catch.
The questions worth asking
- Who is actually shooting my shower, and can I see one full gallery of theirs.
- What time do you arrive, and is setup time inside the coverage or before it.
- Do you bring your own light, and what happens if the venue is dark.
- How do you run the group photos, and how long do they take.
- When do sneak peeks arrive, and when does the full gallery arrive.
The day before
Almost everything that goes wrong at a shower was decided the day before, and most of it is furniture. Twenty minutes of preparation buys you an afternoon where the only thing left to do is enjoy it. This list is written for whoever is hosting, which is often not the guest of honour.
The day before
The day of
Feed everybody, open every curtain, and hand the plan over the moment we arrive. Here is the whole list.
Shower day checklist
Sit down. You have earned it.
The last car has gone, there is wrapping paper everywhere, and somebody has left a casserole dish that nobody can identify. This is the best twenty minutes of the day: shoes off, a cup of tea, and a table full of small clothes that will fit an actual person in about eight weeks.
Then keep an eye on your email and whichever channel we have been messaging you on. Your photographer will be in touch, and the first thing to arrive is always the fun one.
Sneak peeks
A small handful of edited frames from the afternoon, sent straight to you. Enough to post, enough to send to the group chat, and enough to thank everybody who came while the day is still fresh.
The full gallery
The complete edited set, delivered to your private gallery on our website. Exact timing varies with the package you booked and the season, and your photographer will tell you the date to expect.
Your access code
A private code arrives with the delivery message. It is the key to your gallery, so treat it like a house key rather than a hashtag. Share the gallery with guests properly instead, and we will help you set that up.
How to open your photos
Your gallery is private and it lives on our website. Everything you need is in the delivery message: a link, and an access code that looks something like this.
Please do not share your access code with anyone.
It is the only thing standing between your photographs and whoever it gets forwarded to. Showers are a room full of other people’s families, so this matters more here than almost anywhere else. If you want guests to see the gallery, tell us and we will arrange proper sharing. If you think the code has gone somewhere it should not have, message us and we will reset it the same day.
Fun tutorial: take our easy to use gallery for a spin before your own photos arrive. It is built in house, and the code above is a working demo key. Tap the access code to copy it, then use it on the Your Gallery page.
Go to our website
Open sundaymedia.ca on any device. Phone is fine for looking, a laptop is better for downloading.
Open the menu and choose My Gallery
It is in the main navigation at the top of every page.
Type in your access code
Exactly as it was sent, capitals included. That opens your session and nobody else’s.
Download, request edits, or order an album
Inside the gallery you can download the full resolution files, ask for edits on specific frames, and request a printed album made from the set. If something is missing or a file will not open, message us and we will sort it out.
You have read the whole thing, which probably means you are the one organising it.
Send us the date, the address and roughly how the afternoon runs. We will handle the light, the details and the ten minutes of group photos that nobody else wants to be in charge of.
Every fee is discussed before payment. Travel, insurance and any venue or permit costs are agreed in writing before the binding contract, so nothing on your invoice is ever a surprise.
Baby ShowerBaby ShowerNice one. Want this list to go?
You just checked your first box. We can hand you the whole list as a file, so it lives on your phone instead of in a browser tab you will lose by Thursday.